During our COS conference earlier in the month, we
were asked to write advice to the incoming group of volunteers, Moz 21, our
replacements. Standard advice themes
like “take everything one day at a time”, “it all gets easier”, or “I promise, you
will eventually be able to speak Portuguese” all seemed like advice these “newbies”
would soon figure out themselves. Without
having to think much, I chose to write:
Teach the crianças
(children) in your neighborhood how to high five. No matter what type of mood you are in, it
will always bring a smile to your face when, on your way to school, they
approach you, hands raised, ready for their “cinco alto” (high five).
Every morning on my way to school, as I cut
through the small path between my neighbor’s houses, I inevitably pass a group
of 2-10 crianças. Upon seeing me, they
jump up, shout “Sara! Sara” (or sometimes “Adrianna! Adrianna!”, close enough I
guess) and run over with their hands raised.
Sometimes it’s a little daunting, seeing their dirt covered palm or
mysteriously wet hand coming towards me with not enough time to avoid the
inevitable, but, even so, it always brings a smile to my face and I can’t help
but giggle.
I have decided that they are my cross between the
minions from Despicable Me and the aliens
from Toy Story, speaking a language I
can’t always understand and saying my name in a manner oddly similar to “the
claw”.
When one of them first sees me, I can hear them
begin to whisper “Sara”, and then they begin to clap their hands and chant my
name. Is this what it’s like to be a
celebrity?
Suraia, my little fabric doll, given to me last year |
In thinking about my last couple of months here, I
think that is what I’ll miss the most.
Not the sense of being a celebrity all the time (ok, maybe a little
bit), but the crianças. Nowhere in
America can you just invite some random kids over to your house to play, never
would a mother just pass her new baby to you over the fence for you to
hold. They find joy in the simplest
things - I entertained a group of boys for about an hour, letting them “paint”
my house with some water and paint rollers.
They make dolls from small pieces of fabric, cars from old cans and
bottles, dig through trash pits to see what “toys” they can find, make houses
from abandoned bricks or make their own bricks from mud, love to clean, do
dishes, and sweep. And simply giving
them a quick high five every morning makes them so excited and happy. They have definitely taught me to appreciate
the simplest things in life and find happiness in those simple things.
Love your high five a advice! I also remember when childhood in America was very much more like what you describe here than what it is now. And how very much fun it was!
ReplyDelete